What seems difficult today to keep a partner. Is it because we intend to require others to be as we want and we can not accept others as they are and fight less?
Why people get tired of being with someone you think will be different with someone else? This shows an excess of optimism.
The problem is never the person with whom we interact but the way we relate.
Love is not accidental that an arrow through the heart of us side by side, but it is something you can learn. It is not about finding the perfect person, but a skill to be acquired. Young immature
experience love while mature people learn to love, because emotional maturity is characterized by emotional stability.
Love is not easy because it requires a sense previously allowing personal development a provision for others only selfless love, with an attitude of humility, confidence and strong will.
say that whoever is able to understand another also love him and understand means to know. Erich Fromm
says that love is an art that requires knowledge and effort.
Most believe in romantic love and concern is finding someone to love them instead of finding someone to love, he who gives true love, not possessive, it also receives genuine love.
can happen to anyone the miracle of falling head over heels, but that feeling of unity and unique intimacy is by its very nature short-lived, until you get to know and realize it will not be tolerated, bored, and disillusioned .
Nobody can believe that true love is an art to be learned, because some are confused and looking for a partner as someone looking for an apartment or a car, ie it produces the feeling of having done a good business and the couple turns out to be an asset in a market where most everything is bought and sold.
In such cases, an enterprise doomed to failure, more emphatic than in any other activity and more difficult to assess.
modern life in all study and work to get a degree or a promotion at work but nobody is willing to learn to love. In this area the most plays by ear.
is not good that man should be alone, "says the Bible, written by scholars of antiquity inspired by revelation divine. But now the man prefers isolation and body worship, denying the possibility of sharing your life with someone significant.
Many try to escape their loneliness through drugs or alcohol but the effects disappear when the empty feeling tends to sharpen.
man boasts of his individualism but in reality has lost its individuality and has become an automaton.
Women, in their desire to be equal to men have lost their femininity and thus the possibility of erotic love with the opposite sex, because they are now identical.
and mature True love means union, but keeping both their own individuality. Love is possible only in freedom, envy, jealousy, ambition, passion and love are not a passion is an attitude, a human, not compulsion. There is a sudden outburst but a permanent arrangement is more about giving than receiving.
And give not mean giving up or deprived of something, sacrifice and impoverished, but is the most beautiful expression of power that brings happiness and vitality.
Although it is not only give each other material things but also given its own vitality, which is alive in each one, their joy, their interest, understanding, knowledge, its humor, sadness and all the expressions of each one.
Something produced in the act of giving love and more love
modern life in all study and work to get a degree or a promotion at work but nobody is willing to learn to love. In this area the most plays by ear.
is not good that man should be alone, "says the Bible, written by scholars of antiquity inspired by revelation divine. But now the man prefers isolation and body worship, denying the possibility of sharing your life with someone significant.
Many try to escape their loneliness through drugs or alcohol but the effects disappear when the empty feeling tends to sharpen.
man boasts of his individualism but in reality has lost its individuality and has become an automaton.
Women, in their desire to be equal to men have lost their femininity and thus the possibility of erotic love with the opposite sex, because they are now identical.
and mature True love means union, but keeping both their own individuality. Love is possible only in freedom, envy, jealousy, ambition, passion and love are not a passion is an attitude, a human, not compulsion. There is a sudden outburst but a permanent arrangement is more about giving than receiving.
And give not mean giving up or deprived of something, sacrifice and impoverished, but is the most beautiful expression of power that brings happiness and vitality.
Although it is not only give each other material things but also given its own vitality, which is alive in each one, their joy, their interest, understanding, knowledge, its humor, sadness and all the expressions of each one.
Something produced in the act of giving love and more love
