November 2010

Pumpkin Queen gave the Prince of rusty armor

A queen destiny always smiles ...

it because Queens smile to life each morning.

Queen The miracle was not expecting anything to do with the gentleman the call back. Nobody in their right mind can hold the outlandish and childish idea that a knight in armor too rusty resolve its internal riddle short weeks ... Just a loose headset lady was waiting for the knight could happen to beg or call love. It was that kind of behavior to which the gentleman was accustomed. But, you know, a queen can move the crown, but fall ... Never! You drop the crown a queen means, among other things, forget that you can not make the process of growing feelings and build character in a short time. Not impossible, but it is very likely. No existential doubts are cleared or understand the emotions of the heart of the overnight ... The queen knew from experience ... She would have liked the gentleman had been gifted by the gods with the miracle of existential enlightenment, but being realistic, so wise and full of common sense was, I knew that the gods obsequiarían with some unexpected gift at all would have to do with it. The best thing that could happen to knight rusty armor too afraid to confront his fate was, for once, the gods were ignorant and did not bless with light.

Why?

For the simple reason that the existential process and ripen slowly, which, in turn, would an opportunity to miss both the queen and to reflect on long lonely nights vital, about why a queen, who loved him, not wait and begged his return.

Suppose that the gods had granted him the inner light, overcoming fears and the integration of emotions overnight. In all likelihood would not have to face his own inner rage, that he had driven to curse and blame the queen. In his farewell email could observe how subtly, hidden between the lines and taking cover behind kind words, poured out their anger on the crown of the queen: "I will not be me tell you what have to change, or what is wrong with you ... "(sic). Another pearl was: "When a relationship breaks do not look guilty ... Is because they are unable or have failed to conjure up characters ... Incompatibility issue ... "(sic). All this nonsense of knight caught in their fears do not believe them or him, since the only one who had loaded the relationship solely responsible for the disaster, he was only him and nothing more than he likes to accept or not. But, what was going to serve the queen trying to make him see reason? In all, since he was full of macho pride, and you know: "There is no blind whoever does not want to see more deaf or who will not hear "and" the traveler that part, let it go. "

was therefore mirasen gods better than the other way and quit the gentleman crashed against the product of its own folly. If he loved wooing damsels headset loose, entangled in his lies and panic to compromise, that's his problem! This would be so until one day her soul crying bitterly the absence of the queen. That day would open the door of salvation to his heart. But until then, no fairy god or he would throw a hand ... Let him alone with his vital momentum with its human stupidity, and to continue giving the "handsome knight rescuer of damsels flojísima ...». headset She was not fit for a queen or was willing to make the effort it entailed. Everyone chooses their destiny ... And he had conjured his own. He, who never wanted to be saliesen "cysts in the heart" as to other friends, had alone those dreaded cysts generated by promoting fear to love together with the absence of responsibility.

But you know, we can not love when our hearts are locked in a rusty armor and feel afraid to live our lives. Not all the excuses in the world can break the armor, which is still there unmoved. Nothing can avert our armor, only ourselves. The gentleman had preferred to look the other way, since he was more comfortable and easier to drag their armor dark and hated. His iron shell to lose sleep, I caught the soul and forcing her mind distorted, like a slave without mercy, to go damsel damsel in thrill-seeking to return the illusion of a barren life of true happiness.

Iluso. Neither

full academic intelligence will serve to mature emotions. Emotional in his dismissal, he was convinced it was enough to learn a lesson at a cognitive level. .. And, you know, "Information is rumor until it is in the muscle, which is when it is knowledge. " He ignored this reality, as only a memory and emotional reasons.

And unfortunately, he was.

Queen of the Castle closed the door behind him, giving his colleagues an order not to allow re-enter the castle while he was locked in his armor. She knew that this was tantamount to saying: "Until the next life ...». More or less.

Come, then, the miracle. Done

first, the gods and could concentrate on the latter.

Oh! Perhaps this account of reality, or his version of it, I was able to shrink the heart ... I still expect that the love affair between the queen and knight armor still too rusty to end with a "happily ever were" the traditional style? Do you think he mused, while in the country they had emigrated, returning to find her, even if in another life ...? Right?

Sorry.

That did not happen.

Many times, that does not happen ever.

The belief that reads: "He (or she) will return when you realize what has made and lost on leaving" would be worth more to them many women and many men, banish forever their hearts. Do not expect to be gone. As a German saying goes: "When traveling it starts, let it go." Rather than cling to the popular statement "I do not know how he could let someone like me", which got used to seal the dismissal of others in our life, we do well off and, instead, get another more empowering self-esteem, I should say something like: "He's gone because you can not appreciate someone like me. Best. Because, why would I want my life to someone who knows, or wants, or he wants, and is entitled "love me and appreciate the uniqueness of human being I am?". Should

want us to love only those who are willing to love, to value and risk to do so.

However, we would like is not always best for us. Remember

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Sometimes, fate has a surprise even better. Not always the best for us is what we want at any given moment of our lives. I already told you that the queen was a wise woman, as befits an evolved soul. So, knowing that everything happens according to our best good and when it has to happen, decided to proceed with the certainty that if the knight was his destiny, so be it. Otherwise, your true destiny would not allow her fail to receive. His guardian angel had to chase away the knight of the queen's life, and your heart.

Since nothing happens without a reason, every problem contains the seed of an opportunity, imagine that the gentleman had appeared in the life of the queen because it had something to teach as a kind of "commitment of the soul with the knight of armor too rusty, and nothing else. A commitment which concerned the supply of magic, vital education or interior opening of the dungeons ... In fact, the presence of the queen meant, in the case of the gentleman, a strong jolt of vital structures. Not surprisingly, she, being someone diametrically unlike any he had known earlier in his life, left him speechless and dizzy sense armor. Moreover, this jolt highlighted the weakness of their alibis, the uncertainty of their lives and insecurity of life mask (protective character created by your ego), as it broke too easily to the brightness of the queen. Therefore fulfilled its commitment, the queen was released to go forward without having to wait.

And he did.

If you like love stories, I have to keep telling the Queen. The target never misses a queen, ever. Simply because a queen is not left to itself same side ever. Not be overlooked means taking responsibility, to analyze the what, how, where and with whom, rather than blame themselves. All this amounts to make a brief analysis of the situation, assess the damage, decide on a strategy to repair the repair and figure out how to evolve from the experience. Obviously, the queen pondered much about the meaning of the passage of knight's armor too rusty for his life, as the opportunity of learning contained in the experience. Everyone knows that life is not how we experience things that happen to us, but what we do with that experience. I already went ahead

she opened the door to your destination. And although it seems and is a metaphor, it is still also a literal as life itself.

Queen opened the door.

Book Excerpt: The Pumpkin Queen gave the Prince of rusty armor.