It's amazing the effect they produce the things we say. Most times we do not realize what we say and even less about the consequences. The words are a reflection of our thoughts and feelings. The first thing that happens is to have a thought that may be good or bad, then, if we cut that thought can be transformed into words and then into action. Therefore it is important even look at our thoughts because it all starts there.
often hurt, offend or mix things only what we say or we say, so we have to think before speaking. Someone once said: "God gave us two ears and one mouth, let's use it in the same proportion, ie listen more and talk less. Try to build
speaking and not destroy. One recommendation that I give is to confirm if the other person is understanding exactly what you mean. Many times we ask: Do you understand? and the other person responds: Yes, that's not enough, let us ask what understand and verify whether or not what we meant, thus saving a lot of misunderstandings. Communication is not easy, usually talk very fast and do not take the time to clarify many things.
The words contain a power that not know but every day it is found more and more, working on our brain is constantly sending information. The information generated in our feelings, attitudes, thoughts, etc. If we talk about positive things, the greater the probability that good things happen, if we talk about negative things, because that is what we get.
depends on you if you use them for better or for worse, both for yourself and for others.
by: widlycastillo
"Our language shapes our lives and haunts our thinking."
Albert Einstein.
